Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Fellatio Secrets

A friend of mine sent me the video below and I was floored! You have to tell me what you think!

So let’s be real, 98.9% of men like getting head and 89.9% of women like giving it (even though about 30% lie and say they don’t because they don’t want to be perceived as being a ho.) Therefore, with that being said, fellatio (giving head) during sex should not be that taboo.


Well from what I hear from some of my male friends I am dead wrong! I hear them talk about how their girl say she don’t like it, or they don’t do it right, or he can tell she doesn't enjoy it so it just messes up the whole experience. But then I have girlfriends that say they don’t mind and a few say they enjoy it. Do I need to get my friends together for some fellatio harmony? LOL

I want you guys to click on the link below and tell me what you think about this instructional video about giving fellatio….did you learn something new? (oh and be warned - the sound effects are....well, you'll see)

And don’t worry ladies…next topic is cullingulus!

*I would have embedded this but they won't let me - he he!

Thursday, May 9, 2013


"You're nipples are hard."

"So, it's cold."

"It's cold hun," he said as he reached across the bed to cup one of her breast in the palm of his hand.

She tried hard not to smile but failed, "you're not getting any you know."

"I wasn't asking for any," he said lightly squeezing her breast then rubbing his thumb across her erect nipple.

She licked her lips and closed her eyes for a moment as a warm sensation traveled down her spine and into her groin. She opened her eyes to him looking down at her, "no matter what you do I'm not giving in."

"I didn't ask you to," he said then bent his head down and softly sucked her breast.

She could feel herself begin to melt. She took a deep breath then let it out slowly.

"I want to make you cum," he whispered in her ear.

A shiver went down her spine, "I thought we had agreed we were taking a break from sex so we can take our relationship to the next level and know each other more intimately.”

“I plan on getting to know you very intimately,” he said as his hands traveled down her body, stopping between her legs.

She took in a quick breath as she felt his fingers slide inside of her.

“I want to feel you cum,” he said in her ear then gently bit her neck followed by her ear.

She squirmed and moaned softly as she felt his hands smoothly moving in and out of her.

“Come on baby, let go and cum for me.”


So has this ever happened to you? Well not this exact thing but maybe something similar?

I think that sometimes one of the best things about sex is the playtime before and after that turns into before. Some people are so caught up in the act itself that they forget to take time out for the fun stuff before.

As good as the act itself is, adding even a little playtime before/after/before, will make it even better. Playtime helps add to the excitement and heightens the anticipation of the act to come. Don’t get me wrong, tearing off your clothes and going at it has its place, but it shouldn't become the norm or you risk your sex life becoming regular and uneventful. At that point there would be no difference between sex and masturbation (who want’s that?).

So go grab your partner and get touchy-feely today, you both will appreciate it later.

Monday, May 6, 2013

Grown Up Toys!!!

When I was a kid my friends and I played with Barbie & Ken, army men, GI Joe, and Tonka trucks (the cool metal kind that lasted forever). We innocently changed their clothes, combed their hair and took them on wonderful adventures in our backyards. As we got older and became aware that boys had penises, girls had vagina's and romantic relationships between the two existed, our interest in Barbie, Ken and Joe became a little more...shall we say... curious. I'm sad to report that in the end, Barbie left Ken for Joe...it was very emotional for everybody.

Now that I am an adult and fully aware of what can be done with a penis and vagina, my selection in toys is a lot more fun! Adding an adult toy or toys to your sex play can completely enhance the experience. In my opinion having toys on the scene makes the play last a little longer and that is always a good thing. I think that every adult should have some toys for play with a partner and play with one's self. I keep my toys close by in a drawer next to my bed (I like keeping them close at hand, you never know).

One of my favorite toys is called a "Love Ring" or "Cock Ring". Ever heard of it? Slip this small little thing on a man's penis, turn it on then give him head...he is going to be a VERY happy man. If you use the palm of your hand and press it closer to the shaft it will give him a sensation that he won't soon forget. Using this little toy would have your man at work having flashbacks! But this little toy is not all about him...no, no, no! It is GREAT at stimulating the clit, massages the inside of the vagina and turns his penis into the best vibrator you would ever use.

The site I like to use to purchase my toys is http://www.eroticplaytoys.com/ because they are secure, discrete and best of all I can usually find a discount! Like right now if you use LETSPLAY you can get 10% off on their products for the entire month of May. If you like their Facebook page you will always get their latest discounts.

So go out and start or build on your toy collection! And I would love to hear anyone's story on how much fun they had with their toy of choice.

Sunday, May 5, 2013

Me & Missionary

Ok, so I'm not saying missionary is a bad thing. What I am saying is there is more to sex than just laying in one spot pretending it's "good" when you know you are actually thinking about the laundry. Now don't get me wrong, said guy/girl is not thinking about the laundry just because they are doing missionary, but if that is the only thing you have in your box of tricks then BOY are you missing out on a lot of fun!

I strongly believe sex should be FUN! Seriously, why do it if you are not going to enjoy yourself? I mean, having sex just for the sake of having sex is well...eh. Having sex with your partner and being able to fall apart panting and/or laughing...now that's the Jones!

Oh, and I'm going to go ahead and put this disclaimer out there. Hopping from bed to bed and having beaucoup (yeah I'm from New Orleans) different partners is not my thing so it's not something that I can speak on. I have one partner and we have lots of fun so I will be mostly talking about that. YES I will be sharing my sexploits with you.

So here is a little about me. I'm a writer, so I'll be sharing links to my free erotic stories in later post. I was born and raised in New Orleans! I don't care what anyone says, it's one of the most exotic and beautiful places to grow up...I love my city. So of course you can guess...big, huge, Saint's fan!

I'm not married but I do have one sex partner (that's the way I like it) and we have been sexual with each other long enough for me to be VERY comfortable and try all types of new and fun things.

So follow my sexploits and maybe you might find some fun stuff for you and yours to do!